Butch, Dyke, Femme or Lipstick Lesbian? What Do They Mean and Where Do they Come From?
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“So here it is - my lesbian terms dictionary. I’ve even thrown in some of the origins of words so you can look extra clued up next time your buddies go out for coffee. I haven’t organized it alphabetically, but in groups of terms that have similar meanings.”